When you play golf, like any other sports, you will not experience winning only at all times. There would be certain points in your golf career in which defeat would really be experienced. This might be so sad to know, but this is reality. Golf will let you experience both victory and failure at the same time. No matter how you try to avoid failures, you will really experience it. Even the best golfers in the whole world have their own share of losing.
However, it is not winning or losing that matters. What actually is essential here is how you take victory when it happens and accept defeat when it does happen too. Victory is too easy to accept. You don’t need to prepare for your reactions when it happens. What you have to prepare for is how you would take defeat if it comes.
Golfers often sulk after defeat from a game. Some would tend to be depressed for quite some time and dwell on the moment when they were defeated. Others would tend to blame themselves for what had happened, and worst is that when golfers tend to drop golf simply because they are already discouraged. Having these initial reactions is fine. However, when you tend to dwell on pain of losing for a long time and really take leaving golf seriously, then you are definitely on the wrong track. You have to learn that sulking doesn’t get you anywhere. It leads you to only one path- that of extreme sorrow!
For sure, you don’t want this to happen. However, when you always hold on to the fact that you lost, you are just creating your own path leading to nothing else but sorrow. Instead of finding means in order for you to recover and get better, you end up feeling low always. Instead of learning from the past, you end up being stuck into it. This makes you stagnant and immobile. When everyone else has already moved on, learned their lessons, and made a better move, you are still where you are.
Just try to imagine this entire picture. You were defeated, you locked in your room, you cried the entire day, you don’t feed yourself and you just look up the ceiling doing nothing. Isn’t this so pathetic? Now, try to picture the exact opposite. You lost the game, you congratulated your opponent, you accepted your defeat, you discovered your error, you moved on and practiced for the next round, and eventually you have the chance to make it to the next level. Which of the said alternatives would even be a better choice? I bet no one would opt for the first one.
This is just how sulking along with its effects can be pictured out. Generally, you get nothing from it! Now, the next best thing for you to do is to stand up and get some real action!
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This post was written by admin on August 30, 2010
